Splitting everything straight 50/50 seems odd but if it works for you, please share.

Which one of you keeps track of the bills and makes sure they are paid? Do you have a joint bank account for this, or separate? How do you handle buying groceries and household items, and the rent or mortgage payment?

I’ve been a single parent, and I have not lived with another adult in years. This will be a big adjustment as it is, so the last thing I want to do is end up arguing about money and how to handle it. I want to have a good plan in place and discuss my ideas with him prior to moving in so there is no question later how things are to be handled.

Any tips or success stories you could share would be much appreciated!
Yes, I do trust him. This has not been a fly-by-night decision by any means. I’ve considered a lot of things before seriously considering moving myself and my daughter in with someone. He’s probably more disciplined with finances than I am. I am going through a Chapter 7 right now and learning to make better financial decisions. But, I would like to be a large part of the decision-making when it comes to money…I am a very independent person and I won’t let anyone “tell” me what I can and cannot do with the money I make as long as our direct needs are met and the most important bills are paid.

We are not engaged or married yet but there has been serious talk of both. We’ve both discussed our ultimate goals and what we need to do to achieve it. Right now we’re both trying to get back on our feet financially, together, and then take it from there.

Thanks everyone for some good suggestions and sharing your experiences so far!